fix: inspector font/formatting, FreeType-only backend on Apple

Resolves the parity items of docs/rewrite/notes/review-rv17-codex.md
(final-Z20.md):
- FreeType-only font backend is also available on Apple targets
  (discovery-free, embedded emoji fonts); ghostty_surface_quicklook_font
  returns null for every backend except plain CoreText like Zig.
- The +list-fonts test keys off the font crate's selected backend
  (HAS_DISCOVERY), correct under feature unification and on Apple.
- Inspector font: 32 px rasterized with FreeType (dear-imgui freetype)
  like Ghostty; a new `visual-parity.sh inspector` scenario shows 0.031%
  differing pixels (hover highlight) vs the original on Linux. Windows,
  Apple and wasm keep stb_truetype at 32 px (registered as a deliberate
  deviation).
- Inspector DCS/APC descriptions follow Zig 0.15.2's formatting
  (checked by running Zig), incl. the terminal.Parser.Action prefix.
- The ImGui demo window appears only in dev-profile builds, mirroring
  Zig's .Debug-only gate.

Test Plan:
- cargo test --workspace --no-fail-fast (3582 passed)
- just check-macos (both, also with --features font-backend-freetype)
- scripts/visual-parity.sh inspector

Cargo.lock

@@ -706,8 +706,10 @@ source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "728af47c10cb2b12aa36b942e610f894ecafc5d61d0056ab61f9629f02b3d5dc"
 dependencies = [
  "cc",
+ "pkg-config",
  "serde",
  "serde_json",
+ "vcpkg",
 ]
 
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