feat: honor async-backend with epoll/io_uring, fix last RV13 items

Resolves the 4 P3 items in docs/rewrite/notes/review-rv13-codex.md
(final-Z16.md):
- async-backend now takes effect like Ghostty: ghostty_os::xev ports
  libxev's backend detection (io_uring, then epoll); global init detects
  and logs it, the GTK startup applies the config with Zig's messages,
  and +version reports the real backend. The termio IO loop runs on a
  new reactor with epoll, io_uring (io-uring crate) and poll(2) (kept
  for macOS, where libxev uses kqueue). The 21 exec integration tests
  run under every backend; io_uring was exercised here.
- auto-update-channel defaults to the build's release channel.
- Windows error names: sharing violation -> AccessDenied, plus
  ERROR_FILE_EXISTS -> PathAlreadyExists and virus errors ->
  AntivirusInterference, mirroring std.os.windows.OpenFile's NTSTATUS
  mapping in Zig 0.15.2 (verified against its source by the
  orchestrator).
- Exact ports of std.fs.path.basenameWindows/basenamePosix for theme
  name validation (drive, UNC and device roots).

Test Plan:
- cargo test --workspace --no-fail-fast (3555 passed, exit 0)
- just check-macos (both), just check-windows, just check-wasm
- +show-config --default --docs vs /usr/bin/ghostty (only the
  build-specific gtk-opengl-debug line differs)

crates/ghostty-termio/Cargo.toml

@@ -18,6 +18,10 @@ ghostty-vt.workspace = true
 log = "0.4.34"
 thiserror = "2.0.21"
 
+# io_uring backend of the IO thread's reactor (libxev `IO_Uring`).
+[target.'cfg(target_os = "linux")'.dependencies]
+io-uring = "0.7"
+
 [target.'cfg(unix)'.dependencies]
 libc = "0.2.190"
 nix = { version = "0.31.3", features = ["signal"] }