feat: port GTK version fallbacks, helpgen, bench modes, CLI leftovers

- apprt-gtk: Ghostty's runtime+build-time version gating (at_least)
  with cargo features adw_1_3/adw_1_4/adw_1_5/gtk_4_16 (default on) and
  the fallbacks for older libraries: MessageDialog (adw < 1.5),
  clipboard dialog without SwitchRow, pre-Banner debug warning and
  child-exited widgets, the old about dialog, GTK 4.16 CSS error source
  bytes. The minimum stays GTK 4.14 / libadwaita 1.5 (Ghostty's floor).
  The root build links with -z lazy so version-gated symbols don't keep
  older libraries from loading.
- ghostty-helpgen (port of helpgen.zig) generates CLI action help and
  keybinding action docs from doc comments at build time, replacing the
  checked-in help/*.txt; +help and +list-actions --docs stay
  byte-identical to Ghostty 1.3.1.
- ghostty-bench: libc wcwidth mode and separate simd/table and
  uucode/table code paths like Zig.
- ghostty-cli: Windows branches of edit-config, list-colors,
  list-keybinds and boo; ssh-cache DiskCache flock locking (no-op on
  Windows, as in Zig) with an exclusivity test.

Test Plan:
- cargo test --workspace
- diff <(cargo run -q -- +list-actions --docs) \
  <(ghostty +list-actions --docs)

crates/ghostty-bench/Cargo.toml

@@ -19,5 +19,36 @@ ghostty-unicode.workspace = true
 ghostty-vt.workspace = true
 log = "0.4.34"
 
-[lints]
-workspace = true
+# Not `workspace = true`: this crate needs a single audited FFI call (libc
+# `wcwidth`) so `unsafe_code` is `deny` (locally allowed) instead of `forbid`.
+[lints.rust]
+unsafe_code = "deny"
+
+[lints.clippy]
+pedantic = { level = "warn", priority = -1 }
+todo = "warn"
+unwrap_used = "warn"
+# Porting a low-level terminal emulator involves a lot of intentional
+# numeric casts and long state-machine functions; these pedantic lints are
+# noise for this codebase.
+cast_possible_truncation = "allow"
+cast_possible_wrap = "allow"
+cast_sign_loss = "allow"
+cast_precision_loss = "allow"
+cast_lossless = "allow"
+module_name_repetitions = "allow"
+too_many_lines = "allow"
+missing_errors_doc = "allow"
+missing_panics_doc = "allow"
+similar_names = "allow"
+struct_excessive_bools = "allow"
+fn_params_excessive_bools = "allow"
+match_same_arms = "allow"
+unreadable_literal = "allow"
+many_single_char_names = "allow"
+doc_markdown = "allow"
+must_use_candidate = "allow"
+return_self_not_must_use = "allow"
+used_underscore_binding = "allow"
+large_stack_arrays = "allow"
+inline_always = "allow"