fix(config): match Zig's numeric grammar, NUL handling and diagnostics

Resolves the 6 differential gap groups in docs/rewrite/notes/review-
rv9-codex.md (details in final-Z11.md):
- ghostty_os::zig_fmt ports std.fmt.parseInt/parseUnsigned/parseFloat
  (underscores, 0x/0o/0b prefixes, hex floats, inf/nan) with the Zig std
  tests and replaces every int/float parse in config, keybind
  parameters, ssh-cache and desktop detection.
- Interior NUL no longer panics in font names and ends C strings like
  Zig's backing bytes (fontconfig, C config getters, title actions,
  clipboard callback, relative paths, config-file, shaders, background
  image, GTK CSS).
- GTK new-window arguments are trimmed of ASCII whitespace only.
- Command tokenization uses a port of std.process.ArgIteratorGeneral
  (incl. CR/LF separators) with its std tests.
- UTF-8 validation happens where Zig's field parsers do it, so error
  kinds match (metric modifiers, quick-terminal size, link, ...).

A scripted differential run of 202 fields x ~220 hostile/valid values
against /usr/bin/ghostty (+validate-config and +show-config: exit code,
stdout, stderr) now has zero mismatches besides build-specific defaults
(theme resources path, auto-update-channel, gtk-opengl-debug); it also
surfaced and fixed background-blur failure state, NaN formatting and
NaN/-0 finalize clamps. Regression tests: ghostty-config/tests/
zig_parity.rs.

Test Plan:
- cargo test --workspace --no-fail-fast (3456 passed, exit 0)
- just check-macos (both), just check-windows, just check-wasm

crates/ghostty-apprt-gtk/src/class/application.rs

@@ -1138,12 +1138,13 @@ impl Application {
                 }
                 if let Some(v) = s.strip_prefix("--working-directory=") {
                     // D-Bus strings are plain UTF-8, including literal U+FDD0.
-                    working_directory =
-                        Some(ghostty_os::osbytes::EncodedOs::from_plain_text(v.trim()));
+                    working_directory = Some(ghostty_os::osbytes::EncodedOs::from_plain_text(
+                        trim_ascii_whitespace(v),
+                    ));
                     continue;
                 }
                 if let Some(v) = s.strip_prefix("--title=") {
-                    title = Some(v.trim().to_owned());
+                    title = Some(trim_ascii_whitespace(v).to_owned());
                 }
             }
         }
@@ -1869,3 +1870,30 @@ impl Drop for ReadyGuard {
 fn scopeguard_ready() -> ReadyGuard {
     ReadyGuard
 }
+
+/// `std.mem.trim(u8, v, &std.ascii.whitespace)`: only ASCII whitespace
+/// (space, `\t`, `\n`, VT, FF, `\r`) is trimmed, never Unicode whitespace
+/// such as U+00A0.
+fn trim_ascii_whitespace(v: &str) -> &str {
+    v.trim_matches(|c: char| matches!(c, ' ' | '\t' | '\n' | '\r' | '\x0b' | '\x0c'))
+}
+
+#[cfg(test)]
+mod trim_tests {
+    use super::trim_ascii_whitespace;
+
+    #[test]
+    fn new_window_arguments_trim_only_ascii_whitespace() {
+        assert_eq!(
+            trim_ascii_whitespace(" \t\n\r\x0b\x0c/tmp/a b \n"),
+            "/tmp/a b"
+        );
+        assert_eq!(trim_ascii_whitespace("/tmp/name\u{a0}"), "/tmp/name\u{a0}");
+        assert_eq!(
+            trim_ascii_whitespace("\u{a0}title\u{2003} "),
+            "\u{a0}title\u{2003}"
+        );
+        assert_eq!(trim_ascii_whitespace("\x0btitle\x0b"), "title");
+        assert_eq!(trim_ascii_whitespace(" \t "), "");
+    }
+}