fix: systematic byte fidelity for config strings and RV7 gaps

Resolves the 9 gap groups in docs/rewrite/notes/review-rv7-codex.md and
audits every string-typed config field against its consumers
(field -> consumers -> decode status table in final-Z9.md):
- Windows EnvMap keys use a port of Zig's nls.zig uppercase table
  (upcaseW); Windows locale init follows Zig's chain (setlocale +
  _putenv_s); malformed WTF-8 now fails process launch conversions like
  Zig instead of substituting U+FFFD; kitty file paths convert WTF-8.
- bash --rcfile/--init-file, configured TERM and inherited GTK LANG
  keep their original bytes.
- C API clipboard completion and ghostty_surface_binding_action take
  bytes; complete_clipboard_request is byte-typed through the core.
- text:/csi:/esc: bindings, enquiry-response, input = path:, embedded
  initial_input, search needles, titles, link regexes, clipboard
  codepoint map, command palette text and GTK font/namespace values
  decode the escape encoding before use.

Remaining by design: D-Bus a{ss} values and +new-window arguments are
UTF-8 by D-Bus type. C API key/preedit text follows separately.

Test Plan:
- cargo test --workspace
- just check-macos (both), just check-windows, just check-wasm

crates/ghostty-terminal/Cargo.toml

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ ghostty-onig.workspace = true
 [target.'cfg(not(any(target_arch = "wasm32", windows)))'.dependencies]
 rustix = { version = "1.1.5", features = ["shm", "fs"] }
 
-[target.'cfg(target_vendor = "apple")'.dependencies]
+[target.'cfg(any(target_vendor = "apple", windows))'.dependencies]
 ghostty-os.workspace = true
 
 [dev-dependencies]