fix: C action buffer lengths, byte-faithful callbacks, runtime finalize

Resolves the 8 gaps in docs/rewrite/notes/review-rv10-codex.md
(final-Z13.md):
- P1 memory safety: the C key-table action (and hovered-link/open-URL
  payloads) could advertise a length larger than the NUL-truncated
  allocation. A counted_bytes helper now passes the full bytes plus a
  trailing NUL with len == byte count, like Zig's backing slices; all
  C pointer+len structs were audited and tested to read exactly len.
- ghostty-bench args follow cli/args.zig (ordered duplicates, empty
  value resets, first bad value errors, parseBool spellings); the C
  benchmark tokenizer uses the ArgIteratorGeneral port.
- OSC 7 derived titles, desktop notifications and OSC 8 hover links
  forward raw bytes to the runtime; GTK converts only for display.
- C diagnostic getter exports original bytes; escaped surrogates report
  Utf8CannotEncodeSurrogateHalf; config float formatters print `nan`.
- Config::finalize_for(AppRuntime): GTK-only finalization (gtk-single-
  instance=detect) and termio's cgroup hooks apply only to the GTK
  runtime, so libghostty keeps `detect` like Zig.

Test Plan:
- cargo test --workspace --no-fail-fast (exit 0)
- cargo test -p ghostty-lib --features test-platform
- just check-wasm (macOS/Windows clippy re-run after the concurrent
  terminal changes land)

crates/ghostty-core/tests/e2e_term.rs

@@ -229,11 +229,24 @@ fn osc52_read_allow_and_deny() {
     assert!(h.rt.confirmations.borrow().is_empty());
 }
 
+#[test]
+fn desktop_notification_keeps_invalid_utf8_bytes() {
+    let h = harness!(Harness::recorder(r"\033]777;notify;T\377;B\377\007", &[]));
+    let (t, b) = h.wait_action("osc777", |a| match a {
+        Action::DesktopNotification(n) => Some((n.title.to_bytes(), n.body.to_bytes())),
+        _ => None,
+    });
+    assert_eq!(
+        (t.as_slice(), b.as_slice()),
+        (b"T\xff".as_slice(), b"B\xff".as_slice())
+    );
+}
+
 #[test]
 fn desktop_notifications() {
     let h = harness!(Harness::recorder(r"\033]9;just a body\007", &[]));
     let (t, b) = h.wait_action("osc9", |a| match a {
-        Action::DesktopNotification(n) => Some((n.title.clone(), n.body.clone())),
+        Action::DesktopNotification(n) => Some((n.title.to_text_lossy(), n.body.to_text_lossy())),
         _ => None,
     });
     assert_eq!(b, "just a body");
@@ -244,7 +257,7 @@ fn desktop_notifications() {
         &[]
     ));
     let (t, b) = h.wait_action("osc777", |a| match a {
-        Action::DesktopNotification(n) => Some((n.title.clone(), n.body.clone())),
+        Action::DesktopNotification(n) => Some((n.title.to_text_lossy(), n.body.to_text_lossy())),
         _ => None,
     });
     assert_eq!((t.as_str(), b.as_str()), ("My Title", "My Body"));