When forcing the source file language to `C`, Xcode enforces
the file to be compiled as `C` by appending `-x c` to the
compiler command line.
For now try to limit the damage and only enforce the language
if the ASM and C compilers differ.
Reproducer (CMake `3.26.4`, Xcode `14.3`):
```
cmake -S build/cmake -B _b -GXcode -DCMAKE_OSX_ARCHITECTURES=x86_64
cmake --build _b
```
Fix: #3622
